The golfer wrote to The Sun to say he had just caught his wife sending nude photos to his regular golfing partner. Their next match could be interesting.

A golfer wrote in The Sun’s regular ‘Dear Deidre’ column to say he caught his wife sending nude photos to his regular golfing partner.

Dear Deidre, aka Deidre Sanders, has been The Sun’s long-suffering aunt for the past 35 years, and yes, the letters used in The Sun are all real.

So much for seeing Brooks Koepka and Bryson DeChambeau in a 2-ball game this Sunday. Can you imagine these two playmates hitting the club this weekend?!

See what the man wrote in the letter below, then scroll down the page to see Deidre’s response.

Suppose his wife will ask for a mulligan.

Here is what the man in question wrote in his letter to Deidre:

Dear Deidre: I opened my wife’s laptop and found nude photos of her with my golfing partner.

We are both 48 years old and she was always a housewife until our children left.

This guy is my regular golf buddy. He has a construction company and said he needed help with the books.

My wife used to do some accounting work so I asked her to help him.

He is 50 years old and divorced with grown sons.

She started working for him when we came out of lockdown and along with doing his bookkeeping, she also answered the phone in the apartment he rented.

I noticed that after a few weeks at her new job, she started to change her image – going to the gym and buying sexy lingerie, something she had never done before.

She woke up more than an hour earlier to prepare for work, bought new clothes, applied makeup carefully, and even changed her hairdresser to a more trendy style.

I started to worry she was hiding something from me.

So when she went out to the store one Saturday morning and left her laptop unlocked, I took my chance. She left the tabs open and I couldn’t resist taking a look.

I was horrified to find a photo of my wife wearing lacy lingerie in an email to my partner.

After digging into their chat, I found more revealing pictures that they had apparently taken of each other.

I took a few photos and then hid in the shack for the rest of the afternoon.

When she called me in for dinner, I told her I wasn’t hungry. She looked worried.

Then I said: “Come here for a moment. Look at these.” I opened my phone and showed her the photos. She’s so embarrassed.

“Okay, so now you know,” she said. But it doesn’t mean anything. I promise you it will be over from now on.”

But I don’t trust her. She still works for him and they are friends on social media.

Here’s what Deidre replied to the golfer:

Explain to her how worried you are about your marriage and that her affair has been a game changer.

Maybe she’ll work from home now or find a job elsewhere if she’s committed to you.

Think about your relationship with each other. What did this guy give her that you didn’t? Do you take each other for granted? Is your sex life on the decline?

What can you change to improve things for both of you? Cheating was wrong and if things felt stale to her then she should have said so.

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